Imagine having the world, the planets, and the universe at your fingertips instead of wasting hours scrolling through explicit images or videos on your laptop. You have a choice to make; continue looking at pornographic material mindlessly or gain invaluable knowledge about life. The latter sounds much more fulfilling, doesn’t it? Choosing to quit porn for good was the best decision I ever made, and I regret not doing it sooner. I want to encourage you to change your mindset and take control of your life. Stop consuming pornography right now, and you’ll thank me later. Here are a few reasons why you should make the switch to a more fulfilling life.
#1 Helps to combat laziness
Are you one of those people who find it easier to escape into the virtual world when faced with relationship or marital problems? That is your brain on pornography. Sure, it may provide temporary relief, but it’s not the most effective way to become the best version of yourself. Instead of spending hours watching other people pleasure themselves or fantasizing about strangers having sex, why not allocate your time to things that will help you improve yourself? Whether it’s studying, learning a new skill, calling your friends, or keeping your living space tidy, focusing on “being better” will naturally lead to “feeling better” over time. So, don’t take the easy way out. Invest your time and energy in activities that will help you grow and become the best version of yourself.
#2 Quitting helps avoids sexual desensitization
Pornography can affect the individual consuming the material as well as potential partners of these consumers. Training your brain to sexually active to the naked body of a different person on the internet can cause one to become less sexually attracted to their real life partner. This can cause sexual dysfunction, ranging from a decreased desire for your partner to complete erectile dysfunction. Detox your body and let all of your neurons heal, so that your body can enjoy all of the natural emotional and physical pleasures that it has to offer.
#3 Keeps us away from social isolation
As social beings, humans are meant to explore and seek knowledge, skills, food, sex and other resources. Spending hours indoors scrolling through pornographic images on a screen is the opposite of what we were designed to do. We are meant to be out in the world socializing with like-minded individuals who share our passion for the beauty and wonders of life. Instead of being glued to our screens, let’s go outside, take a walk, read a book in the park, or even strike up a conversation with a stranger on a bench. By doing so, we can fully embrace our human nature and all that it has to offer.
#4 Motivation for genuine rewards
Did you ever think that you could get all the sexual pleasure and reward you need without having to go out and talk to strangers? It’s true! There’s no need to seek gratification from videos when you can find it within the comforts of your own home. Relying on videos for your gratification can prevent you from seeking other valuable and fulfilling rewards in your life, including healthy sex. This can be especially dangerous if you are struggling with finances, working towards career goals, or seeking a closer and more intimate relationship with a partner. It is better to take control of urges and instead find pleasure in the things that matter most in life.
#5 Reduces your anxiety
If you are struggling to stop viewing pornography even though you know it’s not good for your overall self, know that you are certainly not alone. As impossible as it may seem right now, stopping porn consumption will actually improve your mental health. Although it may cause withdrawal symptoms and anxiety in the short term, avoiding video use can help you overcome social anxiety in the long term. Porn use can lead to prolonged avoidance of real-life social situations, which can cause anxiety. By filling your time with alternative activities, hobbies, and passions that make you happy, you can reduce your social anxiety and improve your overall well-being.
#6 Living a more honest life
Being porn-free: Living a life in which you are proud, transparent, and unashamed can be life-changing. It empowers you to be your authentic self, without the fear of being judged or rejected. By embracing honesty and openness, you invite deeper, more meaningful connections with others. This, in turn, leads to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
#7 More time to do the things that better your life
Time is an invaluable resource that once elapsed, can never be regained. Breaking free from compulsive and addictive habits can provide you with more time to invest in relationships, hobbies, and other passions. Endless scrolling for minutes to even hours can result in missed deadlines for work projects, job searches, and paying bills. It can also take away from enjoyable experiences such as attending concerts, sporting events, food festivals, or social gatherings that you may have wished to participate in if only you had more time.
#8 Being a positive influence for your friends and loved ones
We all have our struggles, but it’s important to remember that the person next to us may be fighting their own battles. How can we have authentic conversations with our loved ones if we’re struggling ourselves? If you plan to have kids someday or already have them, sharing your story, no matter how imperfect it may seem, can be a beautiful thing. And if you don’t feel comfortable discussing your past struggles with porn addiction, you can find the confidence to speak with your children about the potential risks of certain behaviors. It is best to prioritize open and honest communication, because it’s essential to building stronger relationships and creating a better world.
#9 Developing a resilient personality
Breaking free from a dependence or addiction to porn is an arduous task, but the feeling of triumph that comes with taking control of your emotional and physical wiring is unparalleled. By refusing to indulge in a behavior that seems pleasurable, you demonstrate your strength and perseverance. This type of courage is a testament to your mental and emotional fortitude, proving that you possess what it takes to tackle life’s obstacles head-on.
#10 You will begin to live in reality
Imagine a life where you are fully present and genuinely happy. A life where real-life experiences and interactions bring you joy, rather than mindlessly scrolling through your phone or computer. A life where your friendships feel more meaningful, your relationships feel more intimate and your accomplishments feel more rewarding.
Final thoughts
The reasons to quit porn are endless, but the possibilities of what your healing heart, mind, and soul can feel after quitting are infinite. The question is, how badly do you want to make that change? Stay strong and know that better days are ahead, waiting for you to claim them.